Interview from FDS

I just finished completing an interview for FDS which will be published shortly...however, you can read it now!

How do You wish to be addressed? By submissives who are in service to Me as “Mistress”, (well, because I am their Mistress) those who contact Me as Goddess Natasha

What celebrity are You often told You resemble? Jillian Anderson but frankly I don’t see it!

What do You consider to be Your greatest feature? Physically I would have to say My legs and My blue eyes. I play quite a few sports rather than a “set” exercise program although I do strength training and Pilates.  People most often comment on My creativity.

What is the best advice You have ever received? Years ago someone told Me as a Professional Domme to only participate in activities that I really enjoy and find erotic.

What are you “totally addicted” to? Power! Whether it is physical, mental or emotional, it is the reason that I am a Domme.

What do You not ever leave home without? I have a small kit that contains clamps, rawhide ties and a few other toys that rolls up as a travel pouch. It fits so nicely in My purse!

What do You wish you could be more of? I have a severe lack of patience!

How long have You been in the lifestyle? I didn’t become active publicly until about 1990. So…how many years is that?? LOL

Would You consider Yourself to have had a regular childhood? Yes, I have always considered it a “normal” childhood but I was surrounded by what is referred to today as Female Led Relationships. I am not referring to any of the BDSM aspects but the Women in My family ruled the households!

What is your favorite beverage? (can be hot/cold, alcoholic/non-alcoholic,etc). A Bloody Mary! But not any Bloody Mary! There is a bar here in Wilton Manors that make the best around!

What's the sexiest thing a submissive has ever or could ever say to you? One of the things that I hear from those who serve Me is that I have a wonderful touch. For some reason, I find that very sexy!

Tell Us about Your first Femdom experience, including a detailed description of how You felt? I was attending MSU (Michigan State University) when someone I was dating mentioned how they made very bad decisions regarding their free time, finances, study habits etc. We had a conversation about Women’s roles in our families and I made the argument that Women made MUCH better decisions than men.  It turned out that I basically controlled both him and Our relationship for the rest of the time we dated. As far as how it made Me feel, I would have to say that it just felt right, the way it should be with a Women making the decisions and the male following the orders!

What is the last book You read? I just finished “The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot  It is about a woman’s cancer cells that were cultured without her permission in 1951 and her family’s story.

What is Your favorite movie? I haven’t been to or watched a movie in ages! I am not a movie goer! Whenever it is on though I watch Beetlejuice.

Do You consider Yourself a Pro Domme, Lifestyle Domme, or a combination of both? Actually, I have always considered Myself a Female Supremacist first and foremost. Then I would say I would refer to Myself as a Lifestyle Domme.

If You were to choose one word to describe the feeling You experience when Dominating a submissive, which word would You choose? I would have to say powerful and sexy…the feeling of knowing a male is submitting himself to Me, trusting Me and that exchange of power is exhilarating!

What is Your general view of men? Oh, I enjoy them…immensely!

Does Dominating another bring You sexual pleasure? Tell Us about how so and why do You feel this way Oh, yes! The control over someone else whether physical or mental is definitely a form of sexual pleasure for Me.

Which lifestyle books and magazines would You recommend to others? Honestly, not any!

What is Your line of work? I am an administrative assistant which basically means I am the lion at the door!   

How does Your work affect Your Femdom lifestyle? Not at all

How do Your Female Supremacy views affect Your attitude within Your work environment? Well, it helps that I have a dominant personality as I have to deal with a lot of lawyers, politicians who try to run roughshod over people.

Does Your family know of Your lifestyle? Yes but not to the extreme ends of it.

Do You have friends in the lifestyle? I have a lot of friends in the Lifestyle.  Some of them I have known for many years.

Do You have vanilla friends who know of Your lifestyle? Yes.

If Your favorite vanilla Girlfriend were to ask You why She should try dominating Her man, what reasons would You give Her?  I would explain that Women make better decisions and that their life together would be so much smoother if She was in control. 

Have You ever been to a lifestyle party? Oh, yes, many! I have hosted more than My share also!

Have You ever played in public? All the time! I am fortunate enough that I live in an area where there are public events as well as public places that are alternative Lifestyle friendly.

What is the single most important mistake a submissive man makes when first approaching a Dominant Woman? One of the misconceptions would be assuming that their particular fetishes/kinks are Mine.  I think they make the assumption that when approaching Me as a ProDom, I will do what they want because they are paying a tribute. WRONG!

What do You look for when reading an e-mail message from a submissive? I look for common courtesy and respect as well as protocol.  

Do You currently have a slave or submissive? Yes, I have three slaves. Two are local, one is long distance and actually one is featured in My video “slave for life”.

Are You seeking other slaves or submissives? Yes, I am.  As My time if limited, I look for those who can truly assist in My endeavors and understand the concept of “serve and please”.

Do You consider Yourself straight or bi-sexual? Bi-sexual.  I think Women fall in love with a person rather than first considering gender.

Do You prefer Your slaves or submissives to be straight or bi-sexual? It really makes no difference.

Which rules do You require a slave or submissive to live by? For instance, rules regarding use of furniture, walking behind You, calling in, chastity, and so forth. I have rules for private and public. My owned slaves are required to check in daily (by text or phone), remaining chaste is required and I require them to follow basic protocol (ie ask permission before speaking, rising etc)

What is Your favorite lifestyle activity? Well, My main focus is always about control whether it is physical or mental. Other than that I would say CBT especially electro play.

Do You feminize Your servants? It really depends on the individual.  One of My slaves is required to wear feminine under garments at all times while My other slaves are not.

Does Your domination apply to all levels of Your relationship? For instance, do You or would You control Y/your finances?   Yes, ALL levels! My relationship with a slave is a total surrender, giving up COMPLETE control.

Do You cuckold Your slaves or submissives with other lovers? Yes. I actually belong to a group “Goddess Manor” (headed by Lady Femina here on FDS) that embraces the Dominant Female and the cuckold relationship

Do You live a 24/7 FemDom lifestyle? Yes!

If You are in a 24/7 FemDom relationship, would You describe Your relationship as stronger than a vanilla relationship? Definitely!

When a disagreement occurs between You and your slave or submissive, how is it resolved? Is Your word the final word? Yes, My word is final…I can’t recall any major disagreements! I don’t compromise and when someone gets involved with Me that is made clear from the beginning.

Do You set benchmarks for a male to prove his devotion to You? Oh yes! I have A LOT of training material that is required to be read, watched, and listened to and assignments to be completed! Step by step a submissive is guided by Myself to My ways of thinking and My control.

Do You judge a slave or submissive’s willingness to embarrass himself as proof of his desire to serve You? No, I do not. I judge a slave’s devotion by his service and willingness to surrender.

What advice would You offer a Woman whose male partner has just asked to dominate him and She knows nothing of the lifestyle? My advice would be not engage in anything SHE wasn’t comfortable doing.

How do You discipline Your servants? Actually, the act of ignoring a slave for a period of time is what I have found to be the most effective discipline! It gives them a chance to miss the interaction with Me and to reflect on whatever they have done wrong!

Do You use chastity on Your servants? Absolutely!

How do You control the orgasms of Your servants? Monitoring their behavior and through chastity devices. They may have to send photos or appear on web cam at any given time.

Do You use strap-ons on Your servants? Oh, yes! In My opinion strap-on’s reflect My dominance and control. I believe it is a very humbling and submissive act for a slave. If you think about it, it is a total role reversal.  Instead of a male entering a Female’s body, a Female is entering a male.

What do the next five year hold for You? My main focus is growing the Goddess Worship group that I founded some years ago.

Share with Us Your fears when You first became involved in the lifestyle. I was quite young and felt isolated for a time because there just weren't a lot of Dominant Women around. Because I was very vocal about Female Superiority I got a lot of negativity. Thank goddess, those days are over!

Do You have any words of encouragement for new Dommes? The same advice that was given to Me: Don’t do anything that YOU don’t find erotic and exciting!